How to prove a relationship to a Filipina for US Immigration Purposes (I-130 and I-129F)

How to prove a relationship is real for purposes of the I-130 or I-129F Petition? This blog post will provide a few ideas on what USCIS is looking for in a petition filing.
Our Experience:
The immigration attorney married a Filipina in 2014. The above photo is how they look now a decade later. Still happily in love and married.
Our immigration law firm began in 2015, initially assisting Filipinos in North Carolina, USA. Our office assisted with a process back then called "red ribboning," which was a requirement needed by the Philippine Embassy in Washington D.C. (and by any Philippine Embassy or Consulate around the word). Our office was 1 of about 10 in the Eastern United States that assisted the Philippine Embassy System.
After nearly a decade of service, our office has helped hundreds of Filipino Families, both in the United States on a visa, in other Countries (with the Filipino/a on a work visa abroad, usually in Saudi Arabia or Japan), and also in the Philippines.
USCIS reviews many different types of relationship evidence to establish that a Petition is real and loving. The following categories will show a methodical approach on what one can provide to USCIS to prove a relationship:
First Category of Relationship Evidence: Joint Relationship Photos
This category relies on the age of the couple:
If you are under the age of 30:
- 100 photos per year of being together
- Photos for the dating period, engagement period, and marriage period
- No more than 20 photos per event, such as a wedding, vacation, gathering, graduations, etc.
- Photos can be screenshots of video calls
- Not too many selfies
If you are over the age of 30:
- 20 photos per year of being together
- Photos for the dating period, engagement period, and marriage period
- No more than 10 photos per event, such as a wedding, vacation, gathering, graduations, etc.
Second Category of Relationship Evidence: Commingling Finances
Spouses are expected to have access to each other’s money / finances. A Joint Bank account is common.
If you are able to have a Joint Account, USCIS would require 12 months of statements, or as many as possible. In other words, if you’ve been married for 2 years, and have a joint account for 3 years, USCIS would want 3-years of bank statements. The more the better.
If a joint bank account doesn't exist, money transfers are then common. Here are a list of common Money Transfer companies (You might use another company, but the following are popular and just an example):
- MoneyGram
- Western Union
- Xoom
- WorldRemit
- TransferWise
- CurrencyFair
- Ria Money Transfer
- Payoneer
- InstaRem
- Tramsfast
- Remitly
Third Category of Relationship Evidence: Joint Tax Returns
No US Citizen likes to “play” with IRS filings. As such, the IRS 1040 Tax Return and IRS Tax Return Transcript is a great piece of evidence to prove a relationship. The taxes can establish an address, whether the US Citizen is working remotely/abroad, and whether the relationship status is single or married.
Although a Social Security Number is generally needed, Immigrants (and even US Citizens) can look into an ITIN or Individual Taxpayer Identification Number to facilitate the “joint” tax filing.
Fourth Category of Relationship Evidence: Marital Home
This category is probably the most applicable to married couples. The following list can show how many things can actually be used to help prove a marital home:
- Lease naming US Citizen and Immigrant Spouse or a letter from the landlord or property management stating cohabitation of both spouses.
- Deed to home naming both spouses.
A marital or joint home can also be proven by:
- Electric/Water/Sewage Bill/Statement
- Internet Bill/Statement
- Phone Bill/Statement
- Bank Statements (an item that can appear above in the comingling finances and here in marital home)
- Health Insurance Bill/Statement
- Car Insurance Bill/Statement
- Property Insurance Bill/Statement
- Amazon Order History that shows the SAME ADDRESS and alternates between both spouses
- Non-amazon mail and packages that shows the SAME ADDRESS and alternates between both spouses
If both fiances or spouses are living abroad, then any documentation to show the joint address is ideal.
Fifth Category of Relationship Evidence: Constant Communication
If your relationship started 2 years ago, then USCIS expects evidence spanning 2 years.
USCIS wants to see communication in 100% of all relationships. Ideally, USCIS wishes to see proof of communication for the following phases of the relationship:
- Meeting/Friendship/Dating Phase
- Engagement Phase
- Marriage Phase (if now married)
The Types of common Communication Proof can be:
- Phone Records (such as from the phone carrier) for calls and text messages
- Facebook Messenger (very common for Filipino/a)
- Whatsapp conversation (screenshots)
Sixth Category of Relationship Evidence: Social Media
Social Media Posts are ideal pieces of evidence for younger individuals and social media are quite common types of evidence for USCIS Petitions. In the Philippines, Facebook is extremely COMMON.
USCIS likes social media evidence because social media posts are:
- (1) time-stamped, and
- (2) can link the people present in the post or photo.
Moreover, holding you and your significant other out to the public as “a relationship” or as “a spouse” helps show to an officer that a significant other is important in someone’s life.
Seventh Category of Relationship Evidence: Military Related
If in the US Military, a spouse is required to be added into the DEERS System, which would provide the following:
- Tricare and a Military Dependent ID
- SGLI, a $500,000 life insurance policy
- Military reports such as a RED Report, Basic Individual Record, Record of Emergency Data (DD Form 93), or Enlisted Record Brief
Conclusion
There are many types of evidence to prove a relationship is real and loving for purposes of a USCIS Petition. The more evidence, the better.
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